Can You Afford A Divorce?


Can you Afford a Divorce? Even the rich and famous seem to struggle with the question, as made news recently when actor Adrian Pasdar filed in court seeking some $60,000 in monthly support payments from his estranged wife, Dixie Chicks singer, Natalie Maines. The actor reported making some $150,000 per year, but incurring debt in excess of that trying to maintain a lifestyle for himself and the couple’s two children during the divorce and custody litigation. While Ms Maines contends that Mr. Pasdar’s income is almost three times what he acknowledged, she has reportedly not disputed his claim that her annual income is some two million dollars or more.

More pointedly though, Pasdar has now asserted that Maines is over-litigating the case, hoping that he will be forced to accept less favorable settlement terms than he otherwise would, simply because he is “drowning” in the protracted litigation that he cannot afford. Perhaps excepting only where the decimal points are positioned in defining the financial terms involved in the case, the issue is surely familiar to many who have been, who are, or who anticipate becoming a party to a divorce case. For his part, Adrian Pasdar has said that, notwithstanding the couple’s Prenuptial Agreement, in which is written that “neither party shall be entitled to receive alimony, maintenance, or interim spousal or other support from the other party in the event of a dissolution of the marriage,” to deny him spousal support would be “unconscionable” in the present circumstances of the case.

As the Pasdar case illustrates, what may be conscionable years down the road can be difficult or impossible to know at the point of signing a prenuptial agreement. Moreover, Pennsylvania courts are disinclined even to entertain the argument over whether a prenuptial agreement is “unconscionable in the present circumstances,” so long as it was entered into voluntarily, there was a fair and reasonable disclosure of the property and the financial obligations of each party to the other before it was entered into, and both parties expressly waived any further financial disclosure. At the same time though, in the absence of a prenuptial agreement waiving such support, the laws and rules in Pennsylvania provide for spousal support and/or Alimony Pendente Lite (APL) based on a calculated formula, beginning with the incomes of the two parties. This financial support to the lower-earning spouse during the divorce process can mitigate or neutralize the “drowning” effect of the other party over-litigating the case.

Another cautionary point taken from Pasdar and Maines. is that they did not begin their case in the contentious posture it has recently assumed. To the contrary, after filing for divorce in June of 2017, they stayed out of court as they jointly stated their intention to keep things confidential and amicable. Accordingly, Pasdar did not file for spousal support until very recently. It is likely that he did so for all the reasons so many individuals face in these situations, when he realized that the real question is not whether he could afford a divorce, but if he could afford NOT to divorce. As Adrian Pasdar and Natalie Maines would likely agree, when it comes to considering a marriage or its dissolution, you may benefit from consulting an attorney.
A side note of particular interest to practitioners is how the California court handling the divorce action (Los Angeles) will treat the Prenuptial Agreement drawn in and “governed by” Tennessee law.
A side note of more general interest may be that Adrian Pasdar’s father was a thoracic surgeon of some note here in the Philadelphia area.

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About Lawrence Welsh

A funny thing happened to Larry (Lawrence C. Welsh) on the way to his professional career in the practice of law. After graduating from college and before entering law school, he took an extended tour through the hospitality industry, working his way through both the service and business sides of hotels, restaurants and resorts in six states and the District of Columbia. Taking the business acumen and the ever-watchful attention to detail so well-honed during that experience into his lifelong passion to practice law has led Larry to his position as Chief Legal Counsel and head of the firm’s Forensic Support Team. Before joining the firm, Larry worked in the public defender’s office, through which he added an array of advocacy skills and trial experience to his resume. Since joining the firm in 2003, Larry has handled a full range of family law issues, which he continues to do, while lending experience and direction to others in the firm, particularly where and when the resources of the Forensic Support Team are most appropriate. Larry is also licensed in New Jersey, and he leads the firm’s New Jersey team operations. Larry is a multi-year “Top Lawyer” honoree in Main Line Today magazine, and he has been named as an “Awesome/Top Attorney” for family law and divorce in Suburban Life Magazine. Larry is an active member of the bar associations and family law sections of Delaware County, Chester County, and the state of Pennsylvania.